How to Prepare for an Intervention

Quick answer

Good preparation is most of the work.

Most interventions are won or lost before the meeting starts. This is the list Craig walks families through.

1. Choose who will be there

Pick three to six people the person loves and respects. Leave out anyone who can’t stay calm, or who is using too.

2. Write a letter

Each person writes a short letter. Start with love. Name one or two real moments. End with a clear ask to accept help today.

3. Decide your boundaries

Each person decides what will change if the answer is no. Only say what you will actually do.

4. Have treatment ready

Choose a program and confirm a bed for the same day. Know the cost, the intake steps and whether detox is needed first.

5. Plan the travel

Know who will drive or fly with them. Have a bag packed: clothes for a few weeks, ID, health card and any prescriptions.

6. Pick the time and place

Choose a private place where the person feels safe. Pick a time when they are most likely to be sober.

7. Rehearse

Meet as a family before the day. Read the letters out loud. Agree on the order.

8. Plan for after

Treatment is the start. Plan family support during treatment and for the return home. Read what happens after the intervention.